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Hatred: The cleansing phase

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The word ‘HATRED’ has always been in a negative light and it deserves to be that way, however if one looks at things in a different perspective, the word HATRED can be a tool for something POSITIVE. But how? Before I tell you the reasons please do not start a debate, like what I have said “looking at things in a different way”.

No person in this world has not experienced hatred nor anger. Without that emotion all of us could be deemed numb or in a sense, not human. All of us have hated someone or something.  The question is, what happened after your hatred? what have you thought after your anger? The transition of emotion happens because of that certain precursor, it is not PEACE and  not UNDERSTANDING either, but definitely it is  HATRED. Seems twisted? Read on.

HATING THE WHAT

I hate cockroaches, flies and mosquitoes.

I hate being late.

I hate being scolded.

I hate getting fat.

etc.

HATING THE WHO

I hate my lazy friend.

I hate my boss.

I hate my teacher.

I hate my ex.

etc.

ANGER or HATRED is not a problem here, it is the way anger is handled. If one  uses  his/her hatred to negate the problems presented, then HATRED becomes the reason for CHANGE. For example, if you hate being late or getting scolded the thing that you do is start waking up early and start doing the right thing. See the logic? In hating the “who” is somehow the most mishandled part. It is simple, you do not face the WHO that you hate. First FACE yourself and ask, “WHAT DO THEY SEE IN ME?” and then ask again “WHAT WILL I DO?”. Sometimes people just do the “WHAT WILL I DO” and end up hurting others. What do you hate in them? for sure you can never hate a person because he/she is just a person. It is a given that we hate someone because of something. That “something” can still be addressed.

Hatred is like the dark. Only when you actually know darkness that you will appreciate LIGHT. In the same manner, TRUE PEACE and TRUE FORGIVENESS happens when one learns to acknowledge HATRED. Use hatred not to hurt others but use it to identify your weakness, and a tool that could widen your understanding about things.

SHINE! SHINE! BE THE LIGHT IN THE DARK!!

 

 

What??

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SEX..a word which people are too uncomfortable to talk about. But ironically they would love to do it. An epic example of the word HYPOCRISY.  

Educate young people about SEX that they may not  grow ignorant. If not, this world will produce more promiscuous people.